That is surely an "in the eyes of the beholder" sort of question. For me it is a moving target as well. At the range I sure like a big one high capacity mags too. It'll work at home just fine too. But I'm tellin' you they can barely get small enough when they go to town with me. Unless of course I look at the puny little cartridge, at which point I'm thinking comforting is what the man said not comfortable.
This week the P-239 seems just fine thank you, it gets the nod, well, 100% of the time these days. Traded another pistol away leaving just the fatty left ( SP-2340 ), to carry. It is not allowed to leave the house in the summer, lest somebody see how rotund it is.
I'm currently torn between a P-232 Sig and a P-2000 sk HK. One's not quite enough I fear, the other is plenty and probably too danged much. So right now I have convinced myself the P-239 is enough, but not quite too much.