CJ- It really boils down to how much BS you are willing to deal with, and how mobile you are. I know moving can be a big step. I was born and raised in CT. As I grew up, the state became more and more liberal, expensive to live in, and traffic was a nightmare..(All pet peeves of mine). Working for the federal gvt. at the time, when I was offered a promotion to a post in PA, I jumped on it, and never regretted it - low cost of living, great hunting and fishing, lots of quiet back country roads for riding my bikes.. Did miss some of the friends I grew up with, but when I go back to visit, and have to sit in traffic on I-84 as soon as I hit the state line, see what my friends are paying in taxes, and in hushed tones, nervously show me an illegal 30 round magazine like its a bag of heroin or something, I don't regret my choice..
Larry