old women always have deeply wrinkled necks and hands, and the skin is thin and translucent in those spots... old being 35 or above. women that aren't butch have tiny knuckles and flat throats, very little bone definition in the forehead and eye sockets. the heads are usually not as "deep" front to back. the chest and shoulders are still different between a butch woman and a feminine man, women bulk up in the underarm and shoulder blade area, not in the tricep and deltoid area. also, even bodybuilder women are lacking pecs.... steroids don't build pecs in women because they cannot grow them, they have boobs or nothing. so if a woman has some pec structure under her boobs, she's not a she. if she is deep chested proportinately to her body, nevermind the boobs, the bone structure is wrong. upper torso proportions and neck texture should make it obvious. the facial issues can be smoothed out on some persons, plus makeup, but the skin texture will NOT be fixed because it's not possible to filet the back of the hands or the front of the throat and build up that thin skin. as for the genitalia, I cannot fathom how that could even be close to the real deal. the man was either into butch women that are abnormal, if not a repressed homosexual in denial. I don't believe it was as simple as him being fooled.