I have to say that being afraid to use +P in the old all steel Colts is only opinion. It's the opinion of known authorities and gun writers, but anyone can have an opinion. +P is nothing more than a designation that came along after the old Colts were made. NOTHING has been shown or proven about stronger ammunition in the old guns. If anything, the old Colts were over built, with solid steel, to handle a lifetime of shooting.
Some of the bogus information is based on not using hot modern loads in the Colt Peacemaker, which is one of the weakest weapons ever made, referring to it's ability to withstand anything stronger than full blackpowder ammo.
I think the shooting public got caught up in the incorrect hype concerning +P .38 loads. If the Colt Police revolver could be fitted with a .357 chambering, it would handle it very well.
That said, the aluminum frame Cobras, etc. that came along before +P ammo, were not even strong enough to handle continued regular loads. I had a Colt Diamondback, bought new before +P was ever heard of, and shot it and shot it handloads much more potent than the common +P. Then when +P arrived, I used that. When I let that gun go, it was still tight.
The same thin applies to the Detective Special.
When Charter Arms came out with the "smallest and lightest" .38 revolver," I put +P loads in it, jacketed 158 grains. It did not get loose.
Remember SuperVel? The fastest .38 Spl. loading ever commercially developed? They harnessed more pressure than the later +P's. SuperVel was the forerunner of +P, but because no one called it +P, it was deemed okay in any .38, and it was okay.
A S&W Model 10 is an S&W Model 10. It didn't get beefed up when +P ammo came out, but lots of people stuffed the cylinders with the new more powerful stuff.
Lest we lose perspective, a .38 at any power setting is still a weak round. It sits in the realm of the 9mm. I don't know of any old pre-+P era 9mm that cannot tolerate +P fodder.
Before I get blasted for saying the .38 and 9mm are weak, I mean relatively. I carry both, and believe in both, and I put +P in both.
Ruger's LC9 warns against +P+, but says +P is okay. That's because the LC9 is a "little" gun. It ain't a Beretta. But a full frame Colt Police .38 is a full frame gun made out of real steel. You can't put enough powder into a .38 case to damage it.