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Re: My lovely wife Marti passed away today....<><....:(
« Reply #30 on: December 24, 2012, 06:56:50 AM »
Thanks all, I have been reading Marti's bible this morning and will go downstairs and read 2 Samuel 12:23 as soon as I finish.
Your prayers, words, and thoughts have been a great help.
This morning when I awoke it was the third day to almost the minute when Marti went to be with the Lord.
There is something in the bible that says that my pain is nothing compared to the gain of Marti, being in heaven with the Lord.
As much as I want her back and want to be with her I would not take her from where she is now, with the Lord in heaven. To me that is a Christmas gift, knowing that my Marti is having the best Christmas she has ever had, with Jesus...
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« Reply #31 on: December 24, 2012, 09:03:20 AM »
Andy, I recomend you find and join a beravement group, so you can discuss similar feelings on this matter. It done my neighbor a lot of good when he lost his wife. Just a thought and my prayers to carry you through all this. God bless you.
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« Reply #32 on: December 26, 2012, 04:32:57 AM »
Just reading this ....  please accept our sincere condolences.  Our family is very sorry for your loss ... 
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« Reply #33 on: December 26, 2012, 05:48:08 AM »
Andy my friend , it truly saddens me to hear of your loss , I know that not only was she your wife , but also your best friend . Take solas in the fact that she will always be with you , not just in your heart & mind , but also in your soul as well .
 
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« Reply #34 on: December 26, 2012, 09:59:43 AM »
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Few of us have experienced what you are going through right now.  To lose one's best friend, wife, mother of your children and sister in Christ is truely a great loss.
 
I have thought about this type of situation many times over the years if the Lord would take my wife before me.  I watched my mother lose my father in an accident on the farm when he was 33 (I saw him killed, I was 5) and she never remarried staying alone until her death 51 years later. She told me several things to think about as a boy growing up without a father, but her example of faith in Christ, her heart for ministry and her love for us was the thing that impacted me the most. 
 
As I watched her die 2 years ago I was torn.  Losing a mother that I dearly loved and yet knowing that she would soon be with the Lord that she loved so much.  Unlike seeing my father die I had time to "get used to the idea".
 
So as I've thought about the possibility of losing my wife in the future I have thought about where my trust is, what is it that I want our children, and others, to see in me.  The conclusion I have come to is that it isn't me that I want them to see....it is Christ.  I cannot shrink the kingdom of God down to the size of my own life, as the purpose of my life (and my wife's) is to glorify a God Who is good, even though my circumstances may be hard.
 
I know its easier to say than to do, but I will be praying for you in the times ahead "We are not like those who have no hope".
 
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« Reply #35 on: December 26, 2012, 11:28:10 AM »
Andy, just seen this post,  my heart and prayers go out to you. Feel free to talk to us all you want. There is a lot of shoulders here to lean on.
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« Reply #36 on: December 26, 2012, 03:38:50 PM »
A heartfelt thanks to all my friends here. Your support has been a great comfort. Today I went to work so I wouldn't be walking around the oh so quiet house alone. I was able take some time out of the office and with my son's help (and my daughter's help also  by phone and computer) we picked a cemetery location and wrote the obituary. So much to do and decisions to make when in such a state of forgetfullness and thoughts. Without friends and wihout thier support it would be so much more difficult.
A service at church in rememnance of Marti will be held at 2:00 PM on Sunday 12/30/12 and the internment and a graveside service with a colation and Life Celebration following will be held on Saturday, 1/5/13. Thanks again for all your help, encouragement and prayers.....
Andy....<><....:)
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« Reply #37 on: December 26, 2012, 04:05:28 PM »
Prayers are with you.
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« Reply #38 on: December 26, 2012, 07:45:51 PM »
Andy I am very very saddened about the news. :'(  I know there are no words that can be said to make you feel better right now. I myself have lost several family members and only time will make it easier. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care friend and try to hold it toghther the best you can. Dale
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« Reply #39 on: December 27, 2012, 03:38:40 AM »
Life is short, but Heaven's longer. You'll see her again my friend, and never again will you part.
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« Reply #40 on: December 27, 2012, 03:58:24 AM »
andy,  when you see her again yall will be together ina much better place than this.
a place you will never grow old, tired, sick and everyday will bea wonderful one
in our fathers presents.   how wonderful that will be !!!
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« Reply #41 on: December 27, 2012, 05:02:20 AM »
Good morning Andy,

I hope the time at work is helping. ( I KNOW it will I just hope you can see it)

Stay busy, avoid idle time and continue talking about the good times you have enjoyed. Be with your family and friends who knew you guys. Rejoice in our lord as he has the answers and the peace.

My heart goes out to you during this time my friend. Your wife is watching and waiting for you. You have things left to accomplish here before our lord calls you home. Remember life is for the living, live it brother! She will be there for you when it's your time.

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« Reply #42 on: December 27, 2012, 12:57:15 PM »
Sorry for your loss, prayers . Tony

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« Reply #43 on: December 28, 2012, 05:49:22 AM »
I want to thank my friends here for all thier toughts, prayers, words and help which has enabled me to get through this so far. Being able to post here about the loss of my Marti and your responses has helped GREATLY. I wanted to post a copy of the obituary for those that may be interested..Thanks again, for all your kindness and help...Andy....<><.... :)
 
WEST YARMOUTH — Martha Christine Martin, 66, of West Yarmouth, MA, passed away on December 21, 2012, at Cape Cod Hospital.

Born in McKeesport, PA, the daughter of the late James and Martha (Kondor) Balog, she attended Robert Morris Junior College in Pennsylvania and Cape Cod Community College where she received her CNA certificate. She first came to Cape Cod in 1967 where she met her husband the day after she arrived and they have been together ever since. She lovingly spent her time as a dedicated wife, mother and homemaker. She enjoyed her travels to Northern Maine to spend time outdoors with her husband at their cabin in the woods, which they called "Rugged Cross Camp." She loved spending time with her three grandchildren as much as they loved spending time with her. She was a true believer in the Lord through whom she found her strength and peace. Marti will be remembered for her steadfast and inspiring faith in God. She deeply touched many people and always had time to offer her hand or a kind word for those who needed it. Her walk with the Lord was a long one and He has called her home.

Marti is survived by her loving husband of 44 years, Andrew R. Martin and her brother James Balog Jr., of Pennsylvania. She leaves behind a daughter, Jennifer Colson and her husband Jeff of Wakefield, RI and a son Jonathan Martin and his wife Kate of Barnstable, as well as three beautiful grandchildren, Maeve, Effie and Beatrice Martin.

Friends and relatives are invited to attend a Memorial Service for Marti on Sunday, December 30th at 2 p.m. at the First Baptist Church, Main St. Hyannis.

A graveside service will be held on Saturday, January 5th at 10 a.m. at Ancient Cemetery, Center Street, Yarmouthport (off Route 6A). A celebration of Marti's life will be held immediately after at Bosari Gallery Cape Cod, 524 Main Street, Route 6A, Dennis.
 
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« Reply #44 on: December 28, 2012, 11:26:32 AM »
Andy,
 
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
 
take care my friend.
 
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« Reply #45 on: December 29, 2012, 05:36:58 AM »
Andy,
  I can't even imagine your loss. I hope you're able to find comfort knowing she's in a much better place now.

Prayers sent.

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« Reply #46 on: December 29, 2012, 05:59:33 AM »
wow andy...i'm sorry...
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« Reply #47 on: December 31, 2012, 03:25:36 AM »
Andy,words fail .Know that you and yours are in my prayers.Doug
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« Reply #48 on: December 31, 2012, 07:22:33 AM »
Andy,
  So very sorry for your loss. You and family are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you all.
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« Reply #49 on: December 31, 2012, 12:58:07 PM »
Thanks to all, my friends in Christ and my friends at Graybeards, many are the same. Tonight will be the last night I keep the Christmas candles lit in the windows of our home. Marti enjoyed the white candle lights in the windows and I do this for her.
This is a little outline of the last month. On 11/28 a guy operating on a suspended license totalled my car (no injuries which was good), the next day, 11/29 we celebrated our 44th wedding anniversary, not much we said, we'd do more about it after 60 or 65 years together.
Marti's open heart surgery scheduled for 12/13, put off one week to 12/20 because of a hospital emergency. Marti entered the hospital on 12/20 and passed away to be with the Lord on 12/21/12.
12/25 was the celebration of the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ, who my beloved Marti is now happily with.
Tonight ends the year 2012 and tomorrow starts the new year of 2013.
This coming Saturday 1/5 Marti's earthly remains, her ashes, with will be laid to rest and I will somehow have to try to go on without her, thankfully and happily strengthened by my Lord Jesus who will be beside me until I can once again be with my Marti.
Thanks for all your prayers, support, words of wisdom and encouragement. My future is still uncertain but with God I will approach it.
 
A safe and Happy New Year to all my special friends here...Andy....<><.... :)
 
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« Reply #50 on: December 31, 2012, 03:17:26 PM »
Andy I read this tonight and thought of you. Keep your head up buddy. I hope you have a happy new year. Dale
Christmas at the Gas Station

 The old man sat in his gas station on a cold Christmas Eve. He hadn't been anywhere in years since his wife had passed away. It was just another day to him. He didn't hate Christmas, just couldn't find a reason to celebrate. He was sit...ting there looking at the snow that had been falling for the last hour and wondering what it was all about when the door opened and a homeless man stepped through.

 Instead of throwing the man out, Old George as he was known by his customers, told the man to come and sit by the heater and warm up. "Thank you, but I don't mean to intrude," said the stranger. "I see you're busy, I'll just go."

 "Not without something hot in your belly." George said.

 He turned and opened a wide mouth Thermos and handed it to the stranger. "It ain't much, but it's hot and tasty. Stew ... Made it myself. When you're done, there's coffee and it's fresh."

 Just at that moment he heard the "ding" of the driveway bell. "Excuse me, be right back," George said. There in the driveway was an old '53 Chevy. Steam was rolling out of the front. The driver was panicked. "Mister can you help me!" said the driver, with a deep Spanish accent. "My wife is with child and my car is broken." George opened the hood. It was bad. The block looked cracked from the cold, the car was dead.

 "You ain't going in this thing," George said as he turned away.

 "But Mister, please help ..." The door of the office closed behind George as he went inside. He went to the office wall and got the keys to his old truck, and went back outside. He walked around the building, opened the garage, started the truck and drove it around to where the couple was waiting. "Here, take my truck," he said. "She ain't the best thing you ever looked at, but she runs real good."

 George helped put the woman in the truck and watched as it sped off into the night. He turned and walked back inside the office. "Glad I gave 'em the truck, their tires were shot too. That 'ol truck has brand new ." George thought he was talking to the stranger, but the man had gone. The Thermos was on the desk, empty, with a used coffee cup beside it. "Well, at least he got something in his belly," George thought.

 George went back outside to see if the old Chevy would start. It cranked slowly, but it started. He pulled it into the garage where the truck had been. He thought he would tinker with it for something to do. Christmas Eve meant no customers. He discovered the the block hadn't cracked, it was just the bottom hose on the radiator. "Well, shoot, I can fix this," he said to himself. So he put a new one on.

 "Those tires ain't gonna get 'em through the winter either." He took the snow treads off of his wife's old Lincoln. They were like new and he wasn't going to drive the car anyway.

 As he was working, he heard shots being fired. He ran outside and beside a police car an officer lay on the cold ground. Bleeding from the left shoulder, the officer moaned, "Please help me."

 George helped the officer inside as he remembered the training he had received in the Army as a medic. He knew the wound needed attention. "Pressure to stop the bleeding," he thought. The uniform company had been there that morning and had left clean shop towels. He used those and duct tape to bind the wound. "Hey, they say duct tape can fix anythin'," he said, trying to make the policeman feel at ease.

 "Something for pain," George thought. All he had was the pills he used for his back. "These ought to work." He put some water in a cup and gave the policeman the pills. "You hang in there, I'm going to get you an ambulance."

 The phone was dead. "Maybe I can get one of your buddies on that there talk box out in your car." He went out only to find that a bullet had gone into the dashboard destroying the two way radio.

 He went back in to find the policeman sitting up. "Thanks," said the officer. "You could have left me there. The guy that shot me is still in the area."

 George sat down beside him, "I would never leave an injured man in the Army and I ain't gonna leave you." George pulled back the bandage to check for bleeding. "Looks worse than what it is. Bullet passed right through 'ya. Good thing it missed the important stuff though. I think with time your gonna be right as rain."

 George got up and poured a cup of coffee. "How do you take it?" he asked.

 "None for me," said the officer.

 "Oh, yer gonna drink this. Best in the city. Too bad I ain't got no donuts." The officer laughed and winced at the same time.

 The front door of the office flew open. In burst a young man with a gun. "Give me all your cash! Do it now!" the young man yelled. His hand was shaking and George could tell that he had never done anything like this before.

 "That's the guy that shot me!" exclaimed the officer.

 "Son, why are you doing this?" asked George, "You need to put the cannon away. Somebody else might get hurt."

 The young man was confused. "Shut up old man, or I'll shoot you, too. Now give me the cash!"

 The cop was reaching for his gun. "Put that thing away," George said to the cop, "we got one too many in here now."

 He turned his attention to the young man. "Son, it's Christmas Eve. If you need money, well then, here. It ain't much but it's all I got. Now put that pea shooter away."

 George pulled $150 out of his pocket and handed it to the young man, reaching for the barrel of the gun at the same time. The young man released his grip on the gun, fell to his knees and began to cry. "I'm not very good at this am I? All I wanted was to buy something for my wife and son," he went on. "I've lost my job, my rent is due, my car got repossessed last week."

 George handed the gun to the cop. "Son, we all get in a bit of squeeze now and then. The road gets hard sometimes, but we make it through the best we can."

 He got the young man to his feet, and sat him down on a chair across from the cop. "Sometimes we do stupid things." George handed the young man a cup of coffee. "Bein' stupid is one of the things that makes us human. Comin' in here with a gun ain't the answer. Now sit there and get warm and we'll sort this thing out."

 The young man had stopped crying. He looked over to the cop. "Sorry I shot you. It just went off. I'm sorry officer."

 "Shut up and drink your coffee " the cop said.

 George could hear the sounds of sirens outside. A police car and an ambulance skidded to a halt. Two cops came through the door, guns drawn. "Chuck! You ok?" one of the cops asked the wounded officer.

 "Not bad for a guy who took a bullet. How did you find me?"

 "GPS locator in the car. Best thing since sliced bread. Who did this?" the other cop asked as he approached the young man.

 Chuck answered him, "I don't know. The guy ran off into the dark. Just dropped his gun and ran."

 George and the young man both looked puzzled at each other.

 "That guy work here?" the wounded cop continued.

 "Yep," George said, "just hired him this morning. Boy lost his job."

 The paramedics came in and loaded Chuck onto the stretcher. The young man leaned over the wounded cop and whispered, "Why?"

 Chuck just said, "Merry Christmas boy ... and you too, George, and thanks for everything."

 "Well, looks like you got one doozy of a break there. That ought to solve some of your problems."

 George went into the back room and came out with a box. He pulled out a ring box. "Here you go, something for the little woman. I don't think Martha would mind. She said it would come in handy some day."

 The young man looked inside to see the biggest diamond ring he ever saw. "I can't take this," said the young man. "It means something to you."

 "And now it means something to you," replied George. "I got my memories. That's all I need."

 George reached into the box again. An airplane, a car and a truck appeared next. They were toys that the oil company had left for him to sell. "Here's something for that little man of yours."

 The young man began to cry again as he handed back the $150 that the old man had handed him earlier.

 "And what are you supposed to buy Christmas dinner with? You keep that too," George said. "Now git home to your family."

 The young man turned with tears streaming down his face. "I'll be here in the morning for work, if that job offer is still good."

 "Nope. I'm closed Christmas day," George said. "See ya the day after."

 George turned around to find that the stranger had returned. "Where'd you come from? I thought you left?"

 "I have been here. I have always been here," said the stranger. "You say you don't celebrate Christmas. Why?"

 "Well, after my wife passed away, I just couldn't see what all the bother was. Puttin' up a tree and all seemed a waste of a good pine tree. Bakin' cookies like I used to with Martha just wasn't the same by myself and besides I was gettin' a little chubby."

 The stranger put his hand on George's shoulder. "But you do celebrate the holiday, George. You gave me food and drink and warmed me when I was cold and hungry. The woman with child will bear a son and he will become a great doctor.

 The policeman you helped will go on to save 19 people from being killed by terrorists. The young man who tried to rob you will make you a rich man and not take any for himself. "That is the spirit of the season and you keep it as good as any man."

 George was taken aback by all this stranger had said. "And how do you know all this?" asked the old man.

 "Trust me, George. I have the inside track on this sort of thing. And when your days are done you will be with Martha again."

 The stranger moved toward the door. "If you will excuse me, George, I have to go now. I have to go home where there is a big celebration planned."

 George watched as the old leather jacket and the torn pants that the stranger was wearing turned into a white robe. A golden light began to fill the room.

 "You see, George ... it's My birthday. Merry Christmas."

 George fell to his knees and replied, "Happy Birthday, Lord Jesus"

 This story is better than any greeting card.
 MERRY CHRISTMAS AND GOD BLESS!

 Now clear the lump from your throat, blow your nose, and send this along to a friend of yours or someone who may need a reminder as to why we celebrate Chrismas.
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« Reply #51 on: December 31, 2012, 04:04:44 PM »
simply...Thanks buddy....<><.... :'(
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« Reply #52 on: January 01, 2013, 04:52:31 AM »
My biggest fear is knowing I might have to live without my wife.  You hurt so bad because you loved so much.

The book  of Job speaks of such, From Job 14

  • Man that is born of a woman is of few days and full of trouble.
    2 He cometh forth like a flower, and is cut down: he fleeth also as a shadow, and continueth not.
    3 And doth thou open thine eyes upon such an one, and bringest me into judgment with thee?
    4 Who can bring a clean thing out of an unclean? not one.
    5 Seeing his days are determined, the number of his months are with thee, thou hast appointed his bounds that he cannot pass;
    6 Turn from him, that he may rest, till he shall accomplish, as an hireling, his day.
    7 For there is hope of a tree, if it be cut down, that it will sprout again, and that the tender branch thereof will not cease.
    8 Though the root thereof wax old in the earth, and the stock thereof die in the ground;
    9 Yet through the scent of water it will bud, and bring forth boughs like a plant.
    10 But man dieth, and wasteth away: yea, man giveth up the ghost, and where is he?
    11 As the waters fail from the sea, and the flood decayeth and drieth up:
    12 So man lieth down, and riseth not: till the heavens be no more, they shall not awake, nor be raised out of their sleep.
    13 O that thou wouldest hide me in the grave, that thou wouldest keep me secret, until thy wrath be past, that thou wouldest appoint me a set time, and remember me!
    14 If a man die, shall he live again? all the days of my appointed time will I wait, till my change come.
    15 Thou shalt call, and I will answer thee: thou wilt have a desire to the work of thine hands.
    16 For now thou numberest my steps: dost thou not watch over my sin?
    17 My transgression is sealed up in a bag, and thou sewest up mine iniquity.
    18 And surely the mountains falling cometh to nought, and the rock is removed out of his place.
    19 The waters wear the stones: thou washest away the things which grow out of the dust of the earth; and thou destroyest the hope of man.
    20 Thou prevailest for ever against him, and he passeth: thou changest his countenance, and sendest him away.
    21 His sons come to honour, and he knoweth it not; and they are brought low, but he perceiveth it not of them.
    22 But his flesh upon him shall have pain, and his soul within him shall mourn.
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Re: My lovely wife Marti passed away today....<><....:(
« Reply #53 on: January 04, 2013, 05:48:28 AM »
I just saw this, been off for a while now.  I am so very sorry for you.  We will hold you up in prayer for strength and comfort.  Marti is in a better place now, and waiting for you to be with her.  God be with you.

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Re: My lovely wife Marti passed away today....<><....:(
« Reply #54 on: January 05, 2013, 01:59:43 AM »
Thanks guys, thanks for all the prayers and kind words, they have meant a lot and have been a great comfort, a refuge from reality for the last two weeks.
TWO WEEKS!! That I find unbelievable, my Marti has been gone two weeks yesterday. I responded twice ti this thread last night but it would not go through so I went to bed. I spent yesterday checking things and getting the last minute things done for today's graveside service. I stopped by the cemetery to be sure everything was ready and thoughts and tears returned.
Two weeks is a long time to wait but because of the holidays and the time it took to get Marti's ashes back from the crematory we are lucky to be able to have them today and luckily the weather is pretty good. It is supposed to be above freezing and mostly sunny by 10:00am. There is still frozen snow on the ground but not to bad at all. 
I spoke with a guy who lost his spouse  a year or two age, he said the first month was bad and then it got worse as life went on, alone. Thankfully because of Marti I will not be alone, I will always be with the Lord Jesus, I will not be with Marti, but she will be even closer to him, Marti will be with Him in heaven.
In a little over two hours Marti's mortal remains will be placed in their final resting place here on earth. My faith in God is what I have and although my emptiness is great I am full of His love. I hope I can do well on the earthly side of me but as the rest of life, this I cannot control and time marches on.
Thanks guys...Andy....<><.... :)
 
P.S. last nights try at this may have been better and more eloquent but I have to get ready...
 
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Re: My lovely wife Marti passed away today....<><....:(
« Reply #55 on: January 07, 2013, 01:01:58 PM »
Hello and thanks to all my friends. This will be my last post to this thread but I will continue to poke around the site.

Saturday 1/5/2013 opened with temperatures below freezing and a clear blue sky, just a couple of puffy white clouds above, a beautiful, cold, crisp and sunny New England winter's day.

The cemetery is less than 1/2 mile from the ocean on the bay side of the Cape and you can smell the salt air from there. Temperatures were supposed to warm up some and perhaps reach 40 degrees which I think they might have done. There was a cover of beautiful clean white frozen snow on the ground, only about an inch or two deep but frozen and and nice for walking.

The cemetery is called Ancient Cemetery. Marti loved the history of the Cape and this cemetery has graves dating back to 1698, Marti would have liked that.

My old job, the Massachusetts State Police was in attendance to assist at both the cemetery and Bosari's, the location of the Life Celebration for Marti which was held after the graveside service. Sparkling clean cruisers, blue lights flashing and Troopers in class A full dress uniforms, it impressed even me. I have stood in their place many times in the past myself but never saw it from this side, an impressive, beautiful sight.

The service went off without a hitch, Marti's ashes were laid to rest in our favorite cookie jar, a beautiful rose covered full Cape style home made out of ceramic, it was shiny and glistened in the bright morning sunlight. The cookie jar brought many good comments from friends. Marti was the best cook I knew and loved a good cookie, our friends said they loved it and that it was appropriate.

There was again a tremendous outpouring of friends, over 100, similar to the attendance at the church service last week but many different people.
At the cemetery and after the service many expressed their regrets to me that they would not be able to attend the following celebration of Marti's life/collation and even with that 87 kind souls attended and were well fed. A happy joyus time was had by all. Marti would have enjoyed seeing their happiness and been joyful in that.

I have been immersed in the bible with readings both morning before work and evenings before bed. I wish I had done more of it with my Marti before her passing to be with our Lord. She has such a thirst and knowledge of the Bible and of the Lord.

I can only hope and pray that I am a good enough man and christian to someday be there with her.

Good night Marti, I love you...
Andy....<><.... :)
 
 
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Re: My lovely wife Marti passed away today....<><....:(
« Reply #56 on: January 08, 2013, 12:40:24 AM »
With tears in my eyes Andy I just read you post.... Peace Brother, I KNOW WITH ALL MY HEART YOU WILL BE WITH HER AGAIN!!

PLEASE, stick around, make posts and comments and STAY ACTIVE!!  I for one WANT TO SEE THIS!!

You are STILL in my prayers and WILL REMAIN so, I am deeply moved by this more than I know why as we have never set eyes on one another...Regretably I was unable to make the wake.  :-[ I did not want to intrude on Family for the funeral...


I truly wish you the best, now and for ever, stay safe and PLEASE do not dissapear... Fallmouth, Mass is NOT that far from Meriden, CT...  ;)

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Re: My lovely wife Marti passed away today....<><....:(
« Reply #57 on: January 08, 2013, 04:40:04 PM »
I am very sorry for your loss.  You will be in my prayers.
 
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Re: My lovely wife Marti passed away today....<><....:(
« Reply #58 on: January 10, 2013, 06:16:04 AM »
Andy I am so sorry for your loss ,hang in there after the initial pain wears some the great memories will replace the hurt. Your reflections at times gone past will bring a smile to your face . Kurt
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Re: My lovely wife Marti passed away today....<><....:(
« Reply #59 on: February 15, 2013, 10:24:04 AM »
sorryto hear of your loss I know exactly how you feel I lost my wife of 32short years 2years ago feb 17 and still dont know what to do .they say time heals and it does get alittle beter but not much .Iwsh there was something to say that would help byt havent heard it myself so godbless and know that she is ina better place andthat you will see her again someday.
 
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