Anna
If your discussing experience I agree.
If you are discussing changes---I might disagree.
Changes happen--they are the reality of life. Experiences SHOULD give us insight into reality---but for some---they hold onto the past and try to rebuild a reality that, really, never was. It seems that memories of the past are mostly pipedreams that were never reality.
I sought excitement in my younger life--expecting that to be the reality of life---it never was and that excitement was never really real. I found that excitement was growing--not standing still.
Blessings