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Houston waiter refuses to serve customer who insulted Down syndrome boy  Published January 20, 2013
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  A Houston waiter's Facebook page has been inundated with friend requests and messages after a story of how he stood up for a special needs child went viral.
Michael Garcia, a waiter at Laurenzo's, was serving a family who have been regulars since the restaurant opened. The family includes 5-year-old Milo, who has Down syndrome.
"Milo wasn't being bad, he was just talking and making little noises," Garcia told FoxNews.com. But a customer at a nearby table who was also with his family began making comments about Milo.
 
The customer got up from the table and moved his family to another table further away from Milo, but still in Garcia's serving section.
Garcia said the man continued talking about Milo and said, "special needs children need to be special somewhere else."
"My personal feelings took over because that's ignorance in my opinion and I told him 'Sir, I won't be able to serve you,'" Garcia tells FoxNews.com.
The man and his family got up and left the restaurant, while Milo's family was unaware of the incident at all.
 
"Maybe there were other ways I could have handled it, but Milo is such an angel, he is a gift from God as are all special needs children," Garcia said.
Garcia did not tell Milo's family of the incident because he didn't want to cause them any pain. He compared his actions to wanting to shield someone and said he hopes someone would do the same for his family. Another server told Milo's family what Garcia had done.
"We can't lose track of what this is about," Garcia said about the amount of attention the story has gotten.
"It is about Milo, it is about educating ourselves and when people are different, why should you treat them any different?"
"It's fear of the unknown," he said.
FoxNews.com's Alexandria Hein contributed to this report.

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Re: Houston waiter refuses to serve jerk who insulted Downes syndrome boy.
« Reply #1 on: January 20, 2013, 10:57:44 PM »
It is amazing that any of us have any friends---sometimes.
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Re: Houston waiter refuses to serve jerk who insulted Downes syndrome boy.
« Reply #2 on: January 21, 2013, 01:48:30 AM »
In nearly every case, a downs syndrome child is a sweet happy child.  a happy child being noisy doesn't bother me at all.   a person who mocks them is the exact opposite, they are miserable unhappy jerks.
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Re: Houston waiter refuses to serve jerk who insulted Downes syndrome boy.
« Reply #3 on: January 21, 2013, 04:09:33 AM »
There are aot of special needs people out there. Suprisingly the customer did not use terms like retard loud enough for the special need kids parents to hear. This easily turns into a form of bullying towards special needs people. The waiter I think is classy. If you don't like sitting next to a table with special needs people move if the waiter asks why tell him there was a draft or something. Be polite not a jerk. Growing up we were taught not to point or make rude comments about people who are different. A little politeness goes along way. There is always a way not to be rude.

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Re: Houston waiter refuses to serve jerk who insulted Downes syndrome boy.
« Reply #4 on: January 21, 2013, 05:08:15 AM »
No doubt a proud moment for the wife and kids. ::) 


"Gosh Joey did you read about my dad ? Yeah, he's the douche nozzle that made fun of the downs kid at the diner yesterday. Tomorrow we are going to torture kittens together." :(
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« Reply #5 on: January 21, 2013, 06:04:44 AM »
     We have a downs son!  I have written about him alot here, he is 46 yrs old, goes deer hunting, has been going to school since he was 3yrs. old and loves school, BTW he has shot 3 deer and that something some regular hunters cant claim, come to think about it he has earned a High school deploma again something some regular people cant claim, we are proud of him and everyone who meets him he likes and they like him.  Jim

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« Reply #6 on: January 21, 2013, 06:33:01 AM »
Flaming removed by mod! I saw a lot of different handicapped folks at walmart. Not one was bad, they were all spcl to all of us. One boy would suddenly holler out HOOOOOOOO every once in a while as his mom shopped. We fondly referred to him as hooty.
JIM. Sounds like you have been a real blessing to your son, as well as he has been to you. POWDERMAN.  ;D ;D
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Re: Houston waiter refuses to serve jerk who insulted Downes syndrome boy.
« Reply #7 on: January 21, 2013, 08:21:36 AM »
In my little one room school, we had a boy who was retarded.  I don't think it entered anyones mind to make fun of him.
Todays kids are not taught to respect ANYTHING.
I thank God that our daughter learned to take time with people that are different.
the native americans had the right idea.  different people were treated with respect.
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Re: Houston waiter refuses to serve jerk who insulted Downes syndrome boy.
« Reply #8 on: January 21, 2013, 09:49:32 AM »
Down Children are the most sweetest and loveable kids that I have ever worked with. God has made with a special person with unforseen qualities that the  average person cannot see.

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Re: Houston waiter refuses to serve jerk who insulted Downes syndrome boy.
« Reply #9 on: January 21, 2013, 09:59:14 AM »
Anyone who sees that someone has a handi cap be it mental or physical and makes fun or in any way causes them to feel bad or have to put up with unnessary hardship is nothing more than a selfish bast---.
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Re: Houston waiter refuses to serve jerk who insulted Downes syndrome boy.
« Reply #10 on: January 21, 2013, 12:02:40 PM »
I've been near a few Downs syndome kids that were just disgusting to be near. Don't judge the patron who was the supposed bad guy here. He didn't go to the restaurant for a revolting experience.

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Re: Houston waiter refuses to serve jerk who insulted Downes syndrome boy.
« Reply #11 on: January 21, 2013, 12:17:34 PM »
I've been near a few Downs syndome kids that were just disgusting to be near. Don't judge the patron who was the supposed bad guy here. He didn't go to the restaurant for a revolting experience.
Well,well, would you like to know who's REALLY DISGUSTING, the people who would talk this way about about a person, who through no fault of their own, are different from the mainstream.
I've seen a couple who didn't have the best table manners yet, but were sweet and smiling.
and, you are the person who suggested that I sell my guns and get out of hunting if I didn't want to buy a gun for steel shot for doves.
you have disgusted me enough with this post that I'm putting you on ignore before I start cussing.
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« Reply #12 on: January 21, 2013, 02:02:58 PM »
     Some dont even know when they make a FOOL of themselves,  Sometimes the 1st. amendent gives people a little more ROPE than they can handle.  At least I liked the ADVOCATE!!  Jim

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« Reply #13 on: January 21, 2013, 03:22:29 PM »
Sure some special needs people "don't fit in", so they hoot or holler and do not understand all of the social graces. The diner simply needed to ask the waiter to move his family away. He didn't, he had to make rude comments. "Excuse me waiter there is a bit of a draft would you mind seating us at a different table" Versus "I don't want to sit by a retard".  I'll take politeness anyday over being rude. Pointing out special needs people or calling them retard or gimpy is plain wrong.
 
I have seen"normal" people be pretty disgusting.
 
My office manager has a special needs son. When he comes to visit he is hoot. Really nice guy. I have a special needs guy that works for me. He also is a really nice guy.  Sometimes they have some problems in public but then again I have "normal" workers I wish I could keep from appearing in public.
 
It really fires my rockets to hear people taking about special needs people in a bad way.
I fired a guy becuase after repeated warnings he continued to do it. His statement was "hey boss, he's just a f---ing retard he don't know what I am saying,whats the big deal". He found out what a big deal it was. And my special needs employee did know wat he was saying.
 
If we abuse the weak what does that make us?
 
 

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« Reply #14 on: January 22, 2013, 02:49:03 AM »
Jesus was pretty plain that we are to take care of the weakest among us.  If we don't, I'm sure that he'll turn his back on us when it comes down to Heaven or hell for us.
My favorite nascar driver is David Ragan who has an older brother,  Adam, who has downs syndrome. Adam goes to every race and is made to feel like he's an important part of the race team.
Y'all nascar fans need to root for David.
here's a video about Adam.
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Re: Houston waiter refuses to serve jerk who insulted Downes syndrome boy.
« Reply #15 on: January 22, 2013, 07:26:47 AM »
Down Children are the most sweetest and loveable kids that I have ever worked with. God has made with a special person with unforseen qualities that the  average person cannot see.
So  true.   Plus  these  kids  have  a  free  pass  straight  to   heaven .  Its  us  so  called  normal  people  in  jeopady  of  getting  there.

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« Reply #16 on: January 22, 2013, 07:49:05 AM »
Down Children are the most sweetest and loveable kids that I have ever worked with. God has made with a special person with unforseen qualities that the  average person cannot see.
So  true.   Plus  these  kids  have  a  free  pass  straight  to   heaven .  Its  us  so  called  normal  people  in  jeopady  of  getting  there.
You got that right.
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