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Offline Anna

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My father just died
« on: February 06, 2013, 02:43:03 PM »
I'm not going to be on the site for awhile . Thank all of you from both sides for a wonderful time .
I'm not dealing with this well at all . It was a sudden heart attack he went out to water the horses
and never came back. I'm really not in real good shape right now so I need to go .
You guys try not to fight and I will look in now and then . But he was my dad !
I feel so alone . Anna
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Re: My father just died
« Reply #1 on: February 06, 2013, 02:51:04 PM »
I have been where you are now. So very sorry for your loss.
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Re: My father just died
« Reply #2 on: February 06, 2013, 02:51:47 PM »
Quote from: Anna on February 06, 2013, 02:43:03 PM
I'm not going to be on the site for awhile . Thank all of you from both sides for a wonderful time .
I'm not dealing with this well at all . It was a sudden heart attack he went out to water the horses
and never came back. I'm really not in real good shape right now so I need to go .
You guys try not to fight and I will look in now and then . But he was my dad !
I feel so alone . Anna
So sorry to hear that Anna. I lost my mom a few months ago. Just take it one day at a time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Re: My father just died
« Reply #3 on: February 06, 2013, 02:51:48 PM »
I am very sorry to hear of your loss.
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Re: My father just died
« Reply #4 on: February 06, 2013, 02:54:26 PM »
I'm sorry for your loss, Anna.
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« Reply #5 on: February 06, 2013, 02:55:24 PM »
mine has been gone for 22 years


you never do really get over it
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« Reply #6 on: February 06, 2013, 02:56:11 PM »
very sorry to hear of your loss.
prayers from here for you
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« Reply #7 on: February 06, 2013, 02:57:11 PM »
You're in our thoughts and prayers, Anna.  God bless, and help you through this.
 
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« Reply #8 on: February 06, 2013, 03:24:34 PM »
A lot of us have been through this.  That doesn't make it any easier for you.  It is a shock, sometimes there is a feeling that you should have done something different.  But you can't and it would have at best led only to a different ending.


You are right, it is lonely, the little things you shared are all memories, and the next story you want to tell can't be.


We all feel for you.


With (big) brotherly affection,


Kenny
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« Reply #9 on: February 06, 2013, 03:32:13 PM »
Very sorry to hear that. I have lost my father, my first wife, all my in laws. It hurts like hell. Hope you have a church, family and friends, if so please let them support you. Cherish the good times. :'(
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Re: My father just died
« Reply #10 on: February 06, 2013, 03:53:14 PM »
Prayers sent......
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Re: My father just died
« Reply #11 on: February 06, 2013, 04:19:05 PM »
Anna:
 
My thoughts are with you and I pray you hold it together. The loss of my parents was one hell of a time for me.
Keep your thoughts on the time you did have with him, there will be light after this darkness.
Praying for you and your family.
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Re: My father just died
« Reply #12 on: February 06, 2013, 04:23:59 PM »
I'm very sorry for your loss Anna. I will pray for you.
 
 
 
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Re: My father just died
« Reply #13 on: February 06, 2013, 04:44:22 PM »
     Sorry for your loss Anna. My father went the same way. Worse phone call i ever got. It takes time but it will get better.
 
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My father just died
« Reply #14 on: February 06, 2013, 04:51:28 PM »
Prayers are with you Ms. Anna.  May the Lord be with you and give you His strength and peace.
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« Reply #15 on: February 06, 2013, 05:28:37 PM »
With deepest regrets to you and your family.
My Dad is 84 and not doing real well but we still have him.
Prayers be with you.
 
 
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Re: My father just died
« Reply #16 on: February 06, 2013, 05:56:26 PM »
My dad was sick a long time but the Saturday mornin he took his last breath it was just he and I in his bedroom. Thought I was ready but I really miss him.
God Bless you and yours
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Re: My father just died
« Reply #17 on: February 06, 2013, 06:07:34 PM »
ANNA. Prayer sent friend, more coming. Charlie.  :( :( :( :( :( :(
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Re: My father just died
« Reply #18 on: February 06, 2013, 07:45:54 PM »
Sorry to hear of your loss Anna......my Dad died unexpectedly also.......I was so busy taking care of my Mom and Sister I didn't really grieve for about a year ( hit me like a ton of bricks).  I wouldn't suggest that.....take care of yourself also.
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Re: My father just died
« Reply #19 on: February 06, 2013, 07:55:08 PM »
Prayers sent.  You are not alone here.
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Re: My father just died
« Reply #20 on: February 07, 2013, 01:03:32 AM »
very sorry for your loss. praying God is your comfort
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Re: My father just died
« Reply #21 on: February 07, 2013, 01:32:47 AM »
When I was 10, Dad told me...


"All I want is to live long enough to see you out of college and on your own. If we're lucky, I'll live that long."


He'd already lost one child (my Sister) two years earlier.


He lived until I was 37 and the day he passed I remembered what he told me when I was a boy. I didn't feel "lucky" at all. It was damn hard to see him go.


Take care Anna. Although it's small comfort and hard for us to see as a blessing, know that your Dad was happy to see you grow up to be a fine young lady who he didn't outlive. Difficult as it is for us to lose a parent, I witnessed the unbearable grief of my parents when they lost a child.
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« Reply #22 on: February 07, 2013, 02:07:24 AM »
 Thoughts and prayers with you and your family Anna.

 I could be mistaken but somehow I always figured the Lord was doing something special when a friend or family member went home so quickly, your Dad must have been a fine man.
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Re: My father just died
« Reply #23 on: February 07, 2013, 02:17:31 AM »
Just  got this from ANNA this morning. She really needs our prayers and Gods strength. Charlie.  :( :( .
 
 Everyone is flying in today but its been rough dealing with
this here on the home front. Years of dealing with things like this when it was other people and I cant seem to help myself . Charlie it was me who found him he had been helping me with things around here because I was working late. It seemed like an eternity for the EMTs to arrive.
But Dad was already gone when I found him so I know it was quick for him.I didn't know what to say
to my brothers and I'm a mess anyway. But I will try to get it together and keep you informed .
Please convey my thanks to the guys for thier best wishes . Anna
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Re: My father just died
« Reply #24 on: February 07, 2013, 03:17:10 AM »
Sorry for your loss Anna.
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« Reply #25 on: February 07, 2013, 03:56:52 AM »
Quote from: Victor3 on February 07, 2013, 01:32:47 AM
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 Although it's small comfort and hard for us to see as a blessing, know that your Dad was happy to see you grow up to be a fine young lady who he didn't outlive. Difficult as it is for us to lose a parent, I witnessed the unbearable grief of my parents when they lost a child.


Yes. I hope to live long enough to see both my daughters as adults past 30, and that'll be good.


hang in there, Anna
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« Reply #26 on: February 07, 2013, 04:10:02 AM »
 My condolences Ms. Anna, and my prayers. I was in the same shape when my Dad passed away, I was with him his last night on earth. He was 82, I had just turned 47, had been in minister over 13 yrs by then. As an only son, it all fell to me to take care of everything, and as a Minister I was expected to "know how to handle it". I too had a bad patch, and I was surprised at my own reaction. I tried to "suck it up", as males seem to do. I had no one to talk to, and in hind sight, I wish I had hired a Counselor. Its tough, but it can be processed. Thing about my Dad, he had always "been there" in my life; then he wasn't. Its a tough loss, but you are not alone, even we strangers are holding you up in our prayers. God Bless, and don't be afraid to go to a Counselor Sis. Rev Jim
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« Reply #27 on: February 07, 2013, 04:23:32 AM »
Very sorry, Anna.  I know how it feels.  My dad was only 54 when he died.  He was my hunting and fishing and shooting friend, the best I ever had.  Losing a father is an enormous change for you.  I pray for your strength.  Mike
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« Reply #28 on: February 07, 2013, 04:41:32 AM »
Miss Anna,

Condolences to you and your family on the loss of your father. Prayers said too.

Overcoming grief is one of the hardest things we have to do in life.

With sympathy.
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« Reply #29 on: February 07, 2013, 06:03:19 AM »
Prayers sent Anna.  God be with you and your family.
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