There is a reason why the grocery store has huge signs out front, they want you to come in and walk out with their stuff.
I think the same about your stored assests. Gold, Silver, Firearms, ammo, tools, food stocks, and water making/ retention. If you tell everyone that you have it and are prepared it may as well be a lighted sign.
No matter who you tell what you have and where, if they are not of the same mind set, lets say a siblings spouce they will blab what you have, the kids will tell other kids who will say in an emergeny, "lets go over to Tommy's house his father has a generator and 3 years worth of food and camping gear. And in an emergency ti may create a mob headed to Tommy's house to be fed and cause problems for Tommy's parents. Tommys Sister's Liberal husband will tell of the crazy bother in law he has an all the supplies he has and agian a bunch of starving liberals are more than willing to TAX your stuff and make everyone equaly equiped with your gear and food. As they will all come togther and vote, democracy at work, to divy up your stuff.