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California mother forced to pay spousal support to man who raped daughter  Published May 07, 2013
FoxNews.com   A California woman was forced to pay $22,000 in spousal support to her ex-husband, who was convicted of raping her daughter, and is now fighting his efforts to resume the payments.
Carol Abar said her young daughter was raped by Ed Abar for 16 years, and although she filed for divorce when she found out about the assaults, she was forced to pay $1,300 in alimony to her husband per month.
Carol Abar paid her ex-husband until last year, when he struck a plea deal in the criminal case, agreeing to plead guilty to one of five rape charges, according to LosAngeles.CBSLocal.com. He was sentenced to more than a year in jail, and the judge temporarily stopped the spousal support.
Now that he is out of jail, Ed Abar has filed to reinstate the payments from the mother of the girl he assaulted.
 
“Every time I wrote that check, I cried because I felt like I was paying the man that raped my daughter,” Carol Abar told CBS 2. “The judge told me I had no proof. It was my word against him. He had been raping her since she was little. Since I got married to him.”
Carol Abar said that her ex-husband is asking for $33,000 in past due support in addition to resumption of payments in the future.
Under California law, when deciding spousal support, the court will take domestic abuse between couples into consideration, but child abuse is not specifically mentioned in the law, LosAngeles.CBSLocal.com reported.
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Past due support?? Sounds like to me he's due for a past due lead implant. The ex, now that he's admitted guilt, should sue him to get her money back. gypsyman
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Thats sad! Heck he will prolly win  a political position with that notoriety! Maybe even Governor!
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Another example of liberal "justice".  Raped the poor girl for 16 years and gets ONE year in jail for it.  Now he wants the victim's mother to pay him while he's out raping some other child (which he surely will do)!
 
The only thing he's entitled to is at least 15 more years in jail.

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Here in Va. they say it is legal to use deadly force to stop a rape. Had it been applied in this case all would be over.
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I'm sorry I just can not see a woman paying support to a man.  Tell him to get his sorry AXX out and get a job.  Any judge that would go along with this is just as sorry in my book.
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I'm sorry I just can not see a woman paying support to a man. ..........

Equality before the law, sometimes it doesn't sit well.
Re: The one year sentence is a farce so much for plea bargaining.
 
What I find strange is the Girl is sixteen, what/why isn't there creditable testimony from her and why did this Judge question  this?
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