Leftoverdj,
You've made a number of assertions that I must disagree with.
1. "Perhaps the best way out of this mess would be to get government out of the marriage business entirely and leave it to the churches and the private parties where it belongs. None of the government's business what the living arrangments of free citizens are, anyway,"
Have you thought of the consequences of getting government "out of the marriage business" and leaving it to churches and private parties? Do you favor the idea of people marrying children, for example?
And nothing in this discussion involves dictating the "living arrangements of free citizens." As far as I'm concerned, they can live together for the rest of their lives, they can wear rings on their fingers or in their noses, they can tattoo each other's names on their butts and they can bequeath their estates to one another. They should not be allowed to legalize their "relationships" into marriage.
2. "The constitution is real clear. Citizens have the right to life, liberty, and property. Gubmint can and oughta protect those. That takes care of murder and theft."
I think you rely on the Fifth Amendment to the Constitution for this assertion.
"Amendment V
No person shall be held to answer for a capital, or otherwise infamous crime,
unless on a presentment or indictment of a Grand Jury, except in cases arising
in the land or naval forces, or in the Militia, when in actual service in time
of War or public danger; nor shall any person be subject for the same offense
to be twice put in jeopardy of life or limb; nor shall be compelled in any
criminal case to be a witness against himself, nor be deprived of life,
liberty, or property, without due process of law (italics mine); nor shall private property be
taken for public use, without just compensation."
Are you seriously contending that the intent of this amendment, in any way, shape or form, was to allow for homosexual marriage. What we are talking about here when we discuss a constitutional amendment is, in fact, "due process of law."
3. You made the assertion that we want to force our religious beliefs on others.
What about when it is the other way around?
I call you attention to the following:
"Article IV.
Section 1
Full Faith and Credit shall be given in each State to the public Acts, Records,
and judicial Proceedings of every other State. And the Congress may by general
Laws prescribe the Manner in which such Acts, Records and Proceedings shall be
proved, and the Effect thereof.
Section 2
The Citizens of each State shall be entitled to all Privileges and Immunities
of Citizens in the several States."
If homosexual citizens of one locality are allowed to legally marry, then citizens of all communities must accept these "unions." Is it then OK for them to force their beliefs on us?
4. You asked the following question: "Major, would you care to explain how what people CALL their relationship affects your life, liberty, or property rights?"
Again, what they call themselves is irrelevant. What is relevant is the legal status they seek for their relationships.
The definition of "marriage" has remained consistent in cultures throughout the world, throughout the ages, throughout virtually all religious and/or secular beliefs or traditions. Marriage is a covenant between man and woman. I find nothing in the Constitution that contradicts this and confers, or recognizes, the right of legal status of marriage for homosexuals. I am fed up with people who conjure up non-existent "constitutional rights" where none exist. I am tired of people stretching and distorting the meaning of that document in ways that would have enraged, I am sure, the framers of that document.
If the gays want the right to marry, it is, in truth, incumbent on them to alter the constitution, by amendment, to change their status and not upon us to amend that document to provide for what is already the legal standard that has existed throughout civilized history.