Thanks for the suggestions guys, but I finally did get the oil out.  I tried a couple things that fell flat on me.
  One suggestion was to use a heat gun, warm the spot, and put a pile of kitty litter on the spot , to draw out the oil.  Well, I use kitty litter in my blacksmith shop, to bury hot blades in, so they can gradually cool to "normalize".  ..But I figured that pail full is in my shop, so it would be damp.
     So not having any kitties, I decided to went to Dollar General, and picked up a small bag of the stuff,  Imagine my surprise, when I got home and opened the bag, just to find I had bought nothing but a bag full of fine gravel !!
 So I went to Youtube and consulted Larry Potterfield..... and ended up doing it his way..  That oven & paper towels does sound like a good idea though.
  But I am still bent out of shape over the gloves..but no surprise, I have trouble finding any gloves of adequate size...