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Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« on: April 08, 2021, 09:11:15 AM »
Bought this house back in February. It needed a lot of work. One project was clearing a small pile of junk in front on the north side of the house. One "item" was a 55 gallon drum with a small amount of unknown liquid. I took it to the alley and left it by the dumster for the city to pick up.
About a month later a woman walks up while we're moving furniture and says: Hi, where's my barrel. I told her if it was the one beside my house, and I had assumed it had been left by the previous owners, and I had taken it to the dumpster.
She apparently went and retrieved it, and set next to  her house.

FOR ABOUT 2 WEEKS.

Then guess where it wound up? So I went over and knocked on their door,  but no one would answer (both cars home).
Later I went and knocked again. No one answered.
I was in my garage about 30 minutes later, and out the front door she walks.
I told she needed to come get her barrel. She got mad, and drug it over to her yard, and said: how's that. 
I said: fine, if you wanna junk up your yard, but y'all ain't junking up mine.

20 minutes later, hubby showed up on my porch. Hes a big'un, and he ain't happy.
So I follow him to the disputed area and he shows me the property line, which he misses by about 6 foot,  then he proceeds to tell me I'd better never attack his wife again, to come see him if I have a problem.
I told him to answer his dam door then, and nobody attacked his wife.
He tells me he just can't believe we're not gonna get along over a 55 gallon drum. I advised him we would, as long as he didn't park it my  yard.
He didn't like that either. I finally told him I thought we could get along if he stayed in his yard, and I stayed in mine, as I was already not liking him.

He left. But the upside is, the barrel containing burnt motor oil ain't in my yard anymore.
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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #1 on: April 08, 2021, 09:20:59 AM »
I have a few of those old barrels, I would pay someone to come and take. And a lot of scrap metal. I showed it all to some Mexican scrapers. And they said it wouldn't bring much and isn't worth them hauling it off.

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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #2 on: April 08, 2021, 09:40:12 AM »
This barrel is in good shape. They pour their old oil change in it. I'm okay with that, just keep it in their own front yard.
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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #3 on: April 08, 2021, 10:52:20 AM »
You did the right thing. Sometimes ya just can’t get along. What some mean by get along is grab your ankles...

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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #4 on: April 08, 2021, 11:55:36 AM »
Well, I been warned about his wife, so I didn't really think it would go well with her after we met the first time.
She got her ole man stirred up, and he came over spoiling for a fight. He's a big guy and I think he's used to getting his way.
He didn't, and he started fadin a little.  I'll catch him out in his yard sometime when she's gone, and see if that fence can be mended, but ain't nobody running over me.
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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #5 on: April 08, 2021, 12:50:19 PM »
It would be best for you if the fence does get mended, but the neighbor is going to have to quit playing tough guy for that to happen.  Hope it works out. 

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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #6 on: April 08, 2021, 12:53:12 PM »
That's a shame to have to start
out that way. I used to think I
knew how much buffer zone one
needs between neighbors, but
I wonder if the average Joe can
afford enough anymore. When I
bought the outpost, some of the
neighbors had used mine and the
adjacent property for a sort of dump
and playground and hunting spot
even though they all have as much
land or more than every other neighbor.
I cleaned up and picked up junk and
trash for a good while ( still find some
every now and then)
I thought I'd bought enough at that time,
but I'm starting to wonder
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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #7 on: April 08, 2021, 01:32:54 PM »
Always amazing how some things can color moving to a new place. Our old neighborhood was going downhill and my bride decided we had to move. Wound up buying a house in an upscale to us neighborhood where lawyers, doctors and successful business folks lived. The day before we closed our movers cancelled and we wound up moving in with my old 66 F100 and a sixteen foot trailer and lots of family with their pickups. Guessing the neighbors weren't real impressed with the Beverly Hillbillies moving into their neighborhood. Didn't take long to figure out we weren't just real welcome in their little upper class enclave.
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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #8 on: April 08, 2021, 01:45:02 PM »
My only friend had a neighbor that thought his dogs were funny when they went after runners/joggers. Wasn’t so funny when my friend maced the crap eaters. Big (censored word) came off the porch on the run to defend his unsecured pooches and tried to hit my friend who stepped a bit to the left and drove a uppercut to the bread box (ooof) knocking the wind out of said neighbor and sent a hard left behind his ear dropping him like the fat peice of crap he was. I really loved that guy. Sweet neighbor had to crawl home...

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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #9 on: April 08, 2021, 01:53:38 PM »
I don't think this guys a bully, I think his wife probably runs things, and got him stirred up with an exaggerated version of what actually happened.
If I can mend the fence, I will. If not, he already knows he can't run over me.
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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #10 on: April 08, 2021, 02:18:54 PM »
It's a shame there's no place to
go anymore and not have a mess.
Some years back a good friend moved
away from a few miles from here
to about an hour and some east.
For a long time things were peaceful
and serene and crime free.
Now it's degraded to the point that
everything has to be locked up and
alarmed and fenced off.
Seems like to me that it started
getting bad when the yuppies started
moving to the area with their brat
criminal kids, and instead of " straightening
them out, and going to a good school "
they had more running room to do
their vandalism and dope and crime.
It's everywhere now
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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #11 on: April 08, 2021, 02:25:58 PM »
These folks appear to be mid to late 30s. We've only been actually living in the house about 2 weeks. We'll see in time how it goes.
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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #12 on: April 08, 2021, 02:36:10 PM »
Good neighbors are worth their weight in gold. Tough to come by these days. The neighbors to my left are very nice. They are the friendliest to me. Husband shoots IDPA matches so gunfire is a normal sound in the neighborhood. Neighbor to my right likes hunting, tractors and Labradors so we get along good also.
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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #13 on: April 08, 2021, 03:54:17 PM »
. . .We'll see in time how it goes.
Hopefully, things will be much better
and stay that way
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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #14 on: April 08, 2021, 04:20:04 PM »
Like I said. The wife already has a reputation, so he'll eventually be out in his yard without her, and I'll try to smooth things out.
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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #15 on: April 09, 2021, 06:16:36 AM »
My neighbor really hasn't been a problem to me, but he lives in a crap hole.  Years ago his wife and kids left due to his drug use and being lazy.  He used to be a block layer, and complained he couldn't do that anymore because of his back, He still doesn't have a job, yet he hunts and fishes. Thats when he had guns.  He hasn't had electricity for the last three years, because he owes a lot of money to the power company. His car that his dad gave him got impounded by the police for not having a license plate a couple months ago.  He has done jail time for having in his possession a dead great horned owl, and illegal deer. He stole a quad off someone.  This past winter him or someone else hooked his electric up from the pole. I thought his dad forked over more money and he got his power back on, but the power company found out and unhooked him completely.  Right around the time his car got impounded, he must have been pissed he wasn't getting power, so he built a fire around the base of the closest electric pole and burnt it.  A number of people lost power including me. The power company came out, and replaced the pole. I figured he would do some jail time again, because they can't fine him. He has nothing.  I guess you can burn electric poles down, and its not enough of a crime to put you in jail. This time they didn't put the transformer back up, so he isn't ever getting power. I figure the cost of the pole replacement was pretty high.
His brother brings him food from the food bank, and he fires his wood burner up in his basement to cook anything. He can't even afford propane for a grill. I blame his dad, because for years his dad would bail him out of his self inflected problems with money. then he would just continue on his ways. I remember when he had dogs. His dad would stop to feed them because he wasn't.  I have thought about trying to help him, but he has done nothing to try and help himself.  His dad has proven that trying to help[ made the situation worse.
 Just recently a good size oak tree fell at the end of my driveway. I cut it up and I cut down a dead pine. Split it and hauled three pickup loads down to him. He did come up and help me after I took the first load to him.     
He has two junk cars around his house. A couple years ago he let one of his drug buddies park this fairly large motor home in his driveway. I couldn't believe they even drove it there. He was a wreck. Well its still sitting there, and it will never leave. His place looks like a crap hole.  When my grandfather built the place it was a very nice place for a good many years.  If he ever moves out, the next owner will just have to burn the place first. I can't wait until the leaves get on the trees. Then I can't see the dump. 
   
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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #16 on: April 09, 2021, 06:40:35 AM »
Ain't anybody living within 200 yards of us. The closest neighbor is a retired Marine and his wife.
The only problems we have is with some critters and the illegals wondering around. I don't know which is worse,
Bad neighbors or illegals, sometimes they are one and the same.

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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #17 on: April 09, 2021, 06:43:05 AM »
I live on 10 acres so and I fenced it so side by side neighbors aren't a problem. I used to have problems with the one's living next to my back property line using my property to dispose their beer and coke bottles on. There have been quite a few different occupants there over the years and I started just throwing their trash back over the fence onto their property and was prepared to explain why I was doing so if they complained. None ever did and the trash disposal stopped in every instance. The latest family to buy the place have been there a few years now and they have never thrown anything over the fence. They have two small children and all the noise I ever hear from them is the kids playing and I don't get upset over little kids having fun. I hope they mange to remain living there. My neighbors to the north are exceptionally good too.
They have three kids and I can hear them playing sometimes and that it. No loud music, no wild parties, pretty much noting except kids playing in the noise department. Both neighbors keep their places clean too. I guess I just got lucky.

 

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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #18 on: April 09, 2021, 12:02:08 PM »
    Good fences make good neighbors , If both   parties  agree to the property line .

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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #19 on: April 09, 2021, 12:20:57 PM »
Well this neighbor keeps his yard very well. He's just attached to this 55 gallon oil drum.
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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #20 on: April 09, 2021, 02:41:24 PM »
Neighbors can be a challenge for sure, years back had a neighbor get ticked off because because our phone line from the pole crossed the corner of his lot. He made some comments about how that was violating his space so I called the phone company and had it moved further down where it didn't cross his lot.

A week later he came over and tried to say he was just giving us a hard time and it was all in jest. Uh Huh.
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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #21 on: April 09, 2021, 02:50:50 PM »
LOL, this guy says he's saving his oil changes for a friend that heats with old motor oil.
He has a Ford pickup, and a midsize car. Can you imagine how long to fill that 55 gallon drum with the oil changes from those two vehicles?
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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #22 on: April 09, 2021, 02:58:25 PM »
I tried making a waste oil heater long ago. It put out plenty of smoke, made the neighbors mad and also the used motor oil didn't flow to good in the winter.

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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #23 on: April 09, 2021, 03:01:01 PM »
It seems that neighbors never underestimate there portion of the property.

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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #24 on: April 10, 2021, 12:27:06 AM »
I have a neighbor who bought me a new ladder stand every year for the first 4 years he was my neighbor. I left him a thank you note and an invitation to stop by every year, but he never has. Generous guy, guess he's just not big on visiting.

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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #25 on: April 10, 2021, 02:06:02 AM »
If you were my neighbor Dan, I show you my 686 no dash and maybe even let you shoot it.
99% of all Lawyers give the other 1% a bad name. What I find hilarious about this is they are such an arrogant bunch, that they all think they are in the 1%.

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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #26 on: April 10, 2021, 04:14:31 AM »
I'd show you my 686 carry and how I polished it out to look like nickel.
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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #27 on: April 10, 2021, 04:40:48 AM »
S&W revolvers are works of art.
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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #28 on: April 10, 2021, 04:44:50 AM »
And they work!
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Re: Getting Along With A New Neighbor,
« Reply #29 on: April 10, 2021, 05:15:42 AM »
Well, if you can't work out anything with the neighbor, you can always use your front porch to clean your guns.
That might send a message. ;D
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