Howdy Guys and Gals,
After many years of scratching my follicully challenged head as well as shooting a lot of bullets down range, here is what I've found concerning seating depth of bullets:
If the 6.5X55 chamber is like the original Swede with a very shallow leede angle, then seat the bullets so that the back of the bullet bearing surface / start of the boattail is at the neck-shoulder junction of the case. These chambers will not allow the bullets to engrave the lands. Military chambers are designed so that the poor souls killing and getting killed have confidence in chambering the round that may save their life.
If, on the other hand, the chamber has been designed for match shooting, and there are several that I've measured that indicate the designer did not understand what is and is not important so this is said with the caveat of buyer beware, seating the bullets into the lands is the way to go.
My 6.5x55, 29.5" long Swede military rifle is capable shooting 1/2 MOA groups using the above loading technique that has the bullets well into the cases.
Regards,
Dan Theodore