I got tired of saying .."Huh!" Either that or just ignore what people are saying, pretending they are not speaking loud enough.
Problem being, they know they are speaking loud enough, and so does everyone else. So the so you are either rude, or stupid. Then folks just start ignoring you.
Current hearing aids are not too obtrusive..and eventually people all know you wear them. I wear a very short
haircut, and just make jokes about my aids, even though nobody else does.
Sometimes I joke about having "left my ears at home"..which I often do..
Sometimes hearing aids can be helpful
My son & his wife took me to dinner on Saturday evening. It was one of those new restaurants that boast of
their own brewery/distillery. none of us were about to sample their hooch, but my son likes the food. It was a well decorated place, but with little sound cushioning.
Now, I like a quiet home and a quiet environment.. ..But here was football on the giant TVs, and it seems the people were all loud talkers, so shortly it started telling on my nerves..
The answer? ..I just took my hearing aids out and put them in my pocket.. I can handle normal or slightly elevated conversation fairly well, and that move saved me some misery.