Bill I've torn the rotator cuff on both shoulders, and torn the bicep muscle loose on both arms. They hurt all the time, but I ain't gonna let'em operate.
I've got several friends that had the surgery to fix my problems and they all said if they had it to do over again, they wouldn't.
I guess you just have to determine whether you'll be better off afterwards.
I had three friends get knee replacement, but several years later they caught curable forms of cancer. The kemo drove their immune systems down, and their bodies started rejecting their knee replacements.
They all three died of infection from the knees. Something to think about.
I've been told I need total knee replacement in both knees, but given the experience of my 3 friends, I'll just continue to hurt, and limp.
I'm sure this helped your anxiety so your back to "will you be better off"?