The .35 Remington is
significantly more powerful than the .357 Maxi in equal length barrels. Using Sierra data in 14" barrels:
.35 Remington - 180FP = 2100 fps/1762 fpe
.357 Maximun - 180 FP = 1850 fps/1368 fpe
.35 Remington - 200 SP = 2050 fps/1866 fpe
.357 Maximum - 200 SP = 1750 fps/1360 fpe
To me, the 400 to 500 fpe advantage of the .35 Remington is significant. Mine has taken deer and moose rather well. Not that the Maxi isn't a good round - it certainly is - but it lacks the raw power of the Remington rimless. The big case also has the advantage of using readily-available factory ammo - try to find .357 Maxi deer ammo at your local Wallyworld.
Handloaded correctly the .35 Rem has no misfire issues, but poor handloading practices can cause problems. If you are not confident you can handload correctly, then the .357 will do well.
[ BTW, the key to avoiding missfires is to NOT move the shoulder back when sizing. Doing so almost guatrantees missfires and/or case separations. ]