snowdog,
On the Rem. 405's, just above the "shoulder"or hump, there is a section that is not tapered. I seat the bullet so that the top edge of the case is just above that shoulder on the bullet. When I crimp, the case is squeezed in on the non-tapered section of the bullet. When I tried seating any deeper the crimping force would sqeeze the bullet into the case. When I tried seating the bullet with the shoulder above the edge of the case, the overall length was too long. It seems that there is just a small area that you can crimp properly on that bullet. My overall length comes out to be about 2.483".
It took a little tinkering to get it set right, but it works OK now. It seems that with this caliber and bullet combination, the Lee FC die is a must. Keep playing with it... it will work, although it does get frustrating at times.
Best,
TnNuc