FW some times your logic makes absolutely no sense at all to me. This is one of those times. Just does not compute.
Well, let's try it this way...
A fellow volunteers to serve his country. His intent is to ensure the blessings of liberty for himself and his posterity. He goes to war, or some terrible place, does that dirty job and comes home.
His nation is so grateful that they dedicate a national holiday to him and his fellows veterans.
But when his fellow Americans actually have the nerve to celebrate and exercise that liberty that he fought to make sure that they have, he gets pissed off because his civilian employer can't afford to give him the day off.
He's defended his nation and served his people. He's made his mark and has been celebrated. He lives in a country that remains free due, in no small part, to his efforts.
Assuming that he doesn't work at the Somalian consulate or in some other socialist hell-hole, he is free to enjoy the fruits of his labor from the system of free enterprise which he helped to defend. But he's pissed because he doesn't get the day off. The day he help to create by his former deeds, and that is being celebrated by many of his fellow Americans.
I'm sorry, but that seems self-centered, maybe even selfish, to me.
Whatever happened to finding satisfaction in a job well-done?
Veterans have earned and deserve the gratitude of their countrymen, but there's just something that rubs me wrong about a man whining that he doesn't get enough pats on the back.