I can confirm that the .30 Mauser die works as an intermediate forming die and reduces forming loss somewhat, but I still think it's too high. I get better case life from Remington cases than Winchester. Two other options exist, as well. If you can find some .22 Jet brass, you can neck it up and fireform. It will end up a bit short, but works ok. The other approach, is to change out your extractor to a .223 based one and form (neck up and shorten) .221 Fireball brass. This probably leads to the strongest and most durable brass and is my long term plan for keeping my Contenders in .256 going until I die and then some if whoever ends up with them knows reloading. My Merrill Sportsman, however, requires a rimmed case, so my long term plan there is the .22 Jet approach.
I like the Hornady 75 gr HP and the Berger 72 gr. HP, and I think you may want to try AA 1680 and RL-7; the latter is especially good, I think, in barrels longer than 10". As to game hunted, when I lived in West Texas in the late 1960s I used it on prairie dogs. Also shot some armadillos - spectacular! Here in Missouri I've limited myself to groundhogs. I always thought it might be worth a try at a close range shot on deer with the 87 gr. bullet, but I was concerned it was just too little gun and never tried it.
Enjoy your .256; it's a great little cartridge well matched to a Contender.
RonF