I agree. Your rifle is sacred. Don't mess with the exterior, but do make it shoot so you can remember your friend better.
If the bore shows rifling quite well for the full length, it can be made to shoot cast very well, but if extremely rough, perhaps only at low velocities. At worst 1400 fps, which is a very usable speed, if mandatory, given your needs. I once cleaned up a real rusty 30-06 bore that I believe I scrubbed two tablespoons full of rust out of before I could lap it. After lapping I chould hold 1 1/2 inch at 100 yards with 2400 fps cast bullet loads. It had gaps in the rifling.
Get my lap kit. It has full instructions for fixing your gun. I believe you'll be supprised at how well it shoots after working it over. Also, if it handles cast at all, it will shoot factory or handloaded jacketed bullets, probably almost as well as a new barrel. An important point in making rough bores of guns with very long worn throats shoot well with jacketed is to use the heaviest bullets suited to the gun. The length minimizes tipping, so the exit with better balance