Dusty - what seems to work best in many short barrelled handguns is the ehaviest bullet commonly availalbe - the 230 grainer at either factory velocities or loaded to higher velocities. The 230s seem to work the action on those shorties more reliably than the lighter weight higher velocity loads do.
If you handload I would start with the 230s, in whatever configuartion feeds most reliably in the pistol and start from there. If a 230 at 850-900'/sec reliably functions the pistol and shoots to poa, then there you have it. After that, you can play with the lighter weight bullets - a 200 grainer at about 950-1K'/sec or a 185 at about another 100'/sec faster.
You may not get enough velocity with the lightweights out of that 3" bbl to get hollowpoints to expand. I have always felt a heavy slow moving bullet works best. JMHO. Mikey.