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Offline Dali Llama

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Fla. to Allow Judges to Cut Off Alimony
« on: May 05, 2005, 07:59:41 AM »
Fla. to Allow Judges to Cut Off Alimony
By DAVID ROYSE Associated Press Writer

(AP) - TALLAHASSEE, Fla.-After debating the heartache of divorce, shacking up for convenience and romantics who "still believe in love," lawmakers voted Wednesday to let judges reduce or eliminate alimony when the person receiving it moves in with someone else.

"This bill is more like a country-western song than good legislation," complained Republican state Rep. Nancy Detert after the 68-44 House vote.
 
Judges generally end alimony when the recipient remarries, but courts in Florida have disagreed about what to do about people who - in the words of one lawmaker - "take themselves right up to the line of remarrying" by moving in with someone else.

Some lawmakers argued it doesn't make sense that the money might even go to support the person who replaced the old spouse.

"It's a bad enough heartache when someone you love leaves, many times for another person," said Republican Rep. Dennis Baxley. "To be asked to support this ex-mate's new girlfriend or boyfriend, that is really adding insult to injury."

Several members - almost all women - said they thought the bill was unfair to women who have given a significant part of their lives to husbands who then walk out on them.

"This is an anti-woman bill," griped Democratic Rep. Eleanor Sobel. "Alimony should be based on what someone has contributed to the marriage."

Most other states have already dealt with this issue. Some have laws ending alimony when the ex-spouse lives with anyone new, and many states authorize judges to end or modify the payments, said Mary Frances Lyle, chair of the alimony committee of the Family Law Association of the American Bar Association.

In some states, alimony payments can be ended even when a divorcee has a platonic roommate, she said.

Democratic Rep. Audrey Gibson found all the talk of money more than a little unromantic.

"Not everyone is looking for the money. Some people do still believe in love," Gibson said.

The measure now goes to the state Senate.
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« Reply #1 on: May 05, 2005, 01:21:18 PM »
Since the law does not require a married person to spend (give) a certain percentage of their income to a spouse or children while married; It is unconstitutional to require a person to pay Alimony or child support when divorced or never married.

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Fla. to Allow Judges to Cut Off Alimony
« Reply #2 on: May 05, 2005, 02:54:39 PM »
If you have kids you have a responsibility to support them.. married, divorced, one night stand, whatever.  Doesn't matter what the mother did or how you feel about her, the kids are not at fault.

However.. the woman is another thing altogether.  Just because you marry one for 5 years shouldn't mean you have to support her for the rest of her life.  That's just crazy.  She should get off her carcass and do her own thing, not ride your coattails.

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« Reply #3 on: May 05, 2005, 03:57:27 PM »
I agree with Haywire. Alimony & child support aint the same. While I think child support is without question every parents responsibility I never could understand why a husband or wife should have to shell out a dime after the assets are cut up, for alimony. If theres no kids then its just 2 single adults, each of whome oughtta be able to fend for themselves. If they cant, well thats just tough nuggies I suppose.
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