The rules for bullet seating depth/cartridge overall length are simple:
1. The COL must not be too long to fit in the magazine box or prevent action cycling (feeding/extraction of unfired rounds).
2. The bullet must not be seated so far out that chambering forces it into the throat. If it sticks when the cartridge is extracted, it could cause a bore obstruction for the following cartridge.
So, you see, a bullet seating/throat measuring thingy is not needed for correct bullet seating. THAT is determined by your chamber throat, the length of the bullet, it's ogive profile, etc, etc.
Many rifles shoot better when the bullet ogive just touches the lands. Others like it better with the bullet some distance out, so that it "jumps" into the throat.
The crimping cannelure grooves are used for heavy recoiling loads, semiauto and tubular feed actions where feeding and recoil impacts tend to move the bullet. Crimped bullets are not needed for most bolt action rifles in most calibers.