JRDudas:
I load about 50 rounds of 38 special per hour with a single stage press like the Lee. One method I like to use is to do a few hundred cartridges in a batch, but spread the work out over three evenings. I'll resize on one night, then prime the next night, then charge and seat the bullets on the third night. Unless you're shooting timed or rapid fire, 300 rounds will last quite a while.
You will find people who say they can load faster, but I suspect they're not factoring in all the incidental steps. My timings are from the time I walk up to the loading bench until I have finished washing my hands and am truly done.
Since you asked for a suggestion on better equipment, I have to answer you with some questions:
1) How many rounds do you need? See my timings and estimates above as a gauge. If you want 500 rounds at a session and don't want to reload again for a month or two, then you really need a progressive press unless you've got a lot of time on your hands.
2) How many calibers are you going to reload? If it's just 38 special, then you're a good candidate for a progressive press like the Dillon. If you're loading a multiplicity of calibers in relatively small batches of ammo, then you're probably better off with a single stage press.
My own preference for single-stage presses is the RCBS Rockchucker kit. It came with everything except Dies, primers, powder, shell holder, bullets, brass, shop goggles, and a precision caliper. The quality is superb and is built to last a lifetime.
(A case tumbler is nice to have, but you can live without it forever if you choose, it's really just a convenience. A darned nice convenience, but a convenience nonetheless.)
Let us know what you decide. Adios.