...if you work with it you will see that twist rate that people say you need is vastly over what is really needed....
Mathematical models like the one linked are good - up to a point. Once reality proves the model wrong, believe reality. Yet the model seems to support what the bullet makers suggest anyway.
Example #1: The Sierra 69-grain bullet is ca. 0.95" long. Fired in a .22-250 it can reach 3250 fps. According to the spreadsheet linked, to be fully stabilized (SF=1.3) you need a 8.9" twist. Guess what Sierra recommends for this bullet? Nine to ten inches.
Example #2: The Sierra 80-grain bullet is ca. 1.05" long and the spreadsheet says at 3050 fps it needs a 7.6" twist. Sierra recommends between 7 and 8 inches. These are hardly vast differences....

But back to the OP's point - he wants to get the bullet ogive closer to the lands. Try the heavier non-boattailed bullets like the Sierra 60 HP, the Hornady 60 V-Max or the Speer 70 SP. This latter stabilized for me in a 1:12" .223 at below 3000 fps, it should work in a .22-250. The long boattails can't be seated too far out because the boat tail is hanging in the air...not the case with flat based bullets.