Terry,
The .45 Win. mag. will push a 200 gn. bullet at abt 1,400 fps. The .44 mag. will push a 210 gn. bullet at abt 1,450 fps, and the .41 mag. will push a 210 gn. bullet at abt. 1,200 fps. Since for every acyion there is an equal and oppsite reaction it is easy to see that the .44 mag. will have the most recoil ans the .41 mag. the least. Felt recoil though will be the same if the gun they are fired in are the same, but but if you were to fire the .44 mag. in a heavyer gun that was ported, and the .41 mag. in a liter gun that was not it is quite possible the the .41 would have more felt recoil.