Ironknees, I also am not the leading expert on this either, but there are several things that I think contribute to getting cast bullets with little if any variation in weight.
1. Get the mould hot and keep it a consistant temp.
2. Develope a consistant rhythm in casting. Do every step the same way each and every time you pour a bullet.
3. Make sure that you have an adequate sprue. As the melt cools in the mould, it tends to suck the melt down into the mould from the sprue excess. If there is not sufficient sprue poured, you with not get a good fill. I can tell when a bullet is not going to be a good one just by watching the sprue cool and seeing whether it ran out of metal to suck down into the mould.
4. Give the sprue time to change from a shiney to a satin look, and then wait 1 or 2 more seconds before cutting the sprue off. Check out the Paul Jones mould site for some good advice on opening and closing the mould.
5. Always cut the sprues off into a separate container, not back into the pot. Remelt them as necessary and flux at this time.
6. Make up your lead alloy in the largest batch possible. If necessary do 2 or more batches and then make a batch by mixing equal numbers of ingots from each batch into one batch of consistant alloy.
7. Mark your batches of alloy so you know for sure what you are making your bullets out of.
This works well for me, and I hope it helps your friend with his problems. I just poured 200 bullets for PPing and weighed them. I had 5 that did not meet my +/- .2 grains for this 430 grain bullet.
Omaha