This is my second time to respond. Wonder what's up?
Here is a very informative post in the bolt action rifle section regarding recoil:
http://www.graybeardoutdoors.com/phpbb2/viewtopic.php?t=85337The .35 remington, while wearing hunting cloths has very little if any noticable recoil using factory coreloct 200 grain cartridges. This is a great old cartridge that's been around nearly as long as the 45.70. The 200 grain load is what the legend was built around and the remington coreloct is about as fine a bullet as the .35 can shoot. Handloaders can get a small increase in performance but I really don't see the need for my type hunting.
The 45.70, has a diverse selection of loads from mild to wild........
Lead cowboy loads which some use for deer are very mild in the recoil dept.
The 405 grain coreloct's are tolerable but when shooting from the bench can bruise a fellow after a dozen or so rounds if the gun isn't mounted right. This is the load custer used at the little big horn....with a lead bullet and black powder of course......It's still not for wimps....(no disrespect intended). If your not used to some recoil, even this mild loading can be a problem for some.
I've installed a limbsaver pad on my 1895 and this really tamed the recoil. Mercury tubes, although I haven't tried them, were highly thought of by the late "Lawdog".....and he said they worked well. I think Redhawk has tried them and finds them good as well........
The 300 grain HP coreloct at 1800 fps, a factory load has even more recoil. I like this load and it shoots well in my 1895..according to the above recoil table this load is close to a 300 win mag.......to me, it still isn't as quick a whack as the .300
Then we move to the PMC 350 grain hornidy HA, or +P+. These are pretty hot......2125 fps and 3000 flbs of energy.....these thump pretty hard.....recoil moves from a slower push to a crisp whack........They shoot great in my gun but are really way more than I need for deer hunting. This load will whack every bit as hard and is just as quick as any 300 mag I've fired.
Then ya got the garretts, and bear claws.......people have killed the african big five with this stuff........haven't fired any personally but my bet is the recoil is just short of a .459 win mag......
It's a beautiful thing the 45.70.........load her down and play........load her up to meet the needs of any north american hunter.......or any where in between.
.450 marlin and .444 I have no experience with......but .450 pressures are up there with the 45.70 +P+ and there are no mild factory loads that I've heard of.......
The 444 factory loads are a little more limited than the 45.70 but if you hand load it would probably make a very good rifle.
Remember though.....ask 10 guys about recoil and you'll probably get 10 different answers......If your in N. Bama PM me and I'll let you try both rifles.....you buy the cartridges your interested in of course......
I started the deer season with the 45.70 but switched to the .35 remington after the first day as the Marlin 336 I have carries no scope and is a little lighter and a little quicker pointing than the 45.70......it carries better through the thick stuff IMO
Really, for short range east coast style hunting it's hard to beat the .35 all things considered. Hope this answers your questions......