I also have a 36, so far its been a great little gun. The recoil isnt any worse than a commander size 1911, and for me it conceals better then anything else I have.
The # of rounds it holds could be an issue, but thats the price you pay for a very concealable 45. I carry 7 in the gun and 2 spare mags. For me that should be plenty.
As for holsters and accessories, I have found that a lot of stuff that fits a G19 will also fit the 36 like a glove, specially if its made of leather, but fit test it first if you can. Hope this helps.