I'm more sure than ever that lube is your problem.
From all I can learn, most so called cast bullet lubes are just wax's formulated primarily to apply easily and stay on the bullets, not to give the ultimate in leading protection and accuracy, or chamber pressure reduction.
Back in 1981, when $30,000 was my life savings, I spent it all on cast bullet lube development, and the formula I came up with works better than anything else I've tried, in handling the above problems, as well as application ease and staying on the bullets. In fact the only customers who report something better are a few cast bullet benchrest rifle shooters who have special formulas tuned specifically for their purpose. (I believe the same results is obtainable by using LBT lube and adjusting the amount used, filling more or less lube grooves as required for the ambient temperature and velocity of interest.)
My advise is to try some LBT lube. If you find it far superior, and still want to use up the large quantity of wax that you have on hand, melt them together 50-50 or even less LBT, and try the performance. LBT lube is good enough that only a thin film of blue soft can be smeared over junk lubes and cure most handgun leading ills. If you try the mixing trick, start with just a small amount, a few grains fo each weighed out in a powder scale, to see how little LBT you can get by with and use the most of what you have. Get the Blue soft for this purpose. There my be lubes out there which LBT won't mix with, but I don't know of any. You'll learn without a great loss if you only melt down a little of each.
By the way. I thought I would get rich with my lube formula, but believe it took at least 10 years to get the invested money back! There were many new lubes coming out at around that time, and almost all have gone under. For most lube makers, it's a necessary part of their cast bullet business, with little profit. Customer ignorance and, or, confusion over what's available allow continued sales. One gets sick of experimenting, REAL FAST!
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