recoil wise, still doesn't make it worth a hoot. That's .38 and 9x19 for you. Without lots of work at it, such loads are all that 90+ % of shooters can handle, especially women. However, that does not make them worth a hoot.
Do you know the definition of "most"? It simply means "more than half". 51% of the time, a .45 ball load stopping men does not comfort me at all. Nor should it comfort anyone.
It takes considerably more useful amounts of power to get a load up to decent anti-personenell performance. You want at least 90% stops with one CHEST hit (half of the torso is GUTS, and hunters all know that gut hits don't mean a thing).
I've never been at all impressed by the .45 Long Colt in lead bullet format, unless the bullet was a lw hp, driven pretty fast (ie, 1200 fps or so). Who CARRIES one, anyway? If you don't WEAR it, you probably wont HAVE it when it's needed.
The point is, the load has to be readily controlable (ie, .45 ball or less recoil) in the sort of gun people WILL carry, ie, a pocket auto.
When you get up around 600 ft lbs, you DO get that 90% stop ratio, with chest hits, IF the bullet doesn't overpenetrate. 30 carbine ball did ok to 50 yds, with chest hits. It has 900 ft lbs, but wastes 1/3rd or more of its power on overpenetration. With a 6" barrel, a full charge 125 gr 357 Mag jhp has about 600 ft lbs, and it's very effective on deer, hogs, feral dogs. Much more so than .45 ACP 230 gr jhp's (to say nothing of .45 ball).
A 255 gr bullet, at 900 fps, has a 229 recoil factor. .45 ball has 175-195 recoil factor (depending upon the length of the barrel) A 229 factor, with the higher line of recoil of the revolver, means .30 sec or more between repeat hits, instead of the sub .18 second feasible to attain with the right loads in an alloy framed, compact .45. The 40+ oz .45 Colt just isn't going to be ccw'd everywhere that a micro .45 will be, and if you fired that sort of heavy recoiling load in the micro compact alloy framed 1911 (if you could, without blowing it up), the repeat hit speed would be more like .40 second.
In combat, misses and poor hits are the rule, not the exception. So a load that slows down your repeat hit speed is a bad idea. Especially when that load lets coons and chucks run off with chest hits, which I've seen the 255gr lfp .45 Colt load do.