Mac,
I used the Lyman "M" die for years with cast bulets in several calibers, but by the time I got my BC, the Lee Universal Neck Expander Die had come along and I went with it when the built in Lee neck expander was too small for use with cast bullets. I know the Lee is a flare/bell die and I understand how the "M" works. What I'd like to ask you is have you compared results with them in the 45-70. I like them both but don't have an "M" die in .45-70 to allow a comparison.
Also, it's interesting you mention the Speer 300 as a second choice. When we were testing loads on the bench, we actuallly go better accuracy with the Rem corlocts 300 gr HP than with the Speer 300 gr HP. Both gave good hunting accuracy but the Rem was definitely more consistant in our rifles.
s.