I just noticed you are in Stuart, Fl. I also saw your other post, (Kahr vs Kel-Tec). If you ever get up around Orlando, maybe I can help you out. I have an XD9 Service, it's not an XD45 but the grips are similar. And I have a Kahr PM9. I have a range close to my house. Maybe we can get you there to try them before you buy. I don't know about you but I hate buying a gun I haven't been able to try out.
Steve