That RCBS bullet looks like one of their better designs, so far as design alone and performance.
Since your rifle will chamber 38-55 brass and the throat is too long, thats the brass I would use. Also make your bullets as fat as will chamber easily so they can't tip on takeoff. You didn't mention whether the RCBS bullet will feed when seated out to fill the throat. If it does, use the grease groove for crimping but don't fill it with lube. I see you are using LBT lube, which will easily prevent leading at the speeds possible with this rifle, with only two lube grooves filled. - What I'm saying here is, to see if you gan get a smile with the mold you have, size in the largest sizer die you have, or if your largest die is sizing the bullet at all, push into the sizer just enough to lock the crimp on, finger lube two grooves, seat to crimp in the grease groove that works, and see if it will shoot. Also, do the same with bullets seated to contact the rifling. No crimp, and hand feed single shots. If it will shoot, you'll know the gun is OK as is. If it won't, the bore probably needs lapping.
My recomendation is one of my LFN's in the weight you want to shoot, but lean toward the heaviest you'd be satisfied with. Diameter should be as large as will chamber easily. It should not be made with a crimp groove, but should have a very heavy driving band up front. Load this bullet long as possible, so it feeds smoothly and chambers without resistence, and crimp lightly with a Lee Factory crimp die. If the barrel is smooth and straight, you will be able to do no wrong. Any load that's safe to shoot (pressure wise) will shoot well.
The RCBS bullet is definately weak on bearing up front considering such a long throat, and the bullet I would make will fix that problem.l