Nope, I've played that game. The other one I have seen is..."You really need this gun for YOU honey, for (hunting) (Home protection)( your new pistol league) "...pick one. When she loses interest, keep the gun.
Better to be straight, and bear the wisdom of the woman who you love. However, this IS your sport and hobby, and honestly, you should be able to keep active in it...hers might become diamond rings, and that's only fair!